Anonymous
its on rare occasions that we find a person who “clicks” with us just like that. And i have made this observation that it happens on the most random-est of moments. Like it just happens out of nowhere and thats the thrill of it. if you’re like desperately looking for a person to trust, i think its gonna be a bit hard cause yk, whenever you talk to someone you’ll have all these expectations and will constantly keep considering if the person checks all the boxes and that process is no fun imo.
so yeah “our people” come to us or we meet them during the most unexpected times, but i am sure we all will have that person at some point. a person or a group of people with whom you can just completely be yourself without any fear of judgement, talk about the most weirdest shit and rant about stuff, talk about how you feel and everything .
trusting someone with an existing trauma in the past can be difficult( idk if you have gone through anything like that in the past, i have completely no knowledge regarding any of that), but when you meet someone, make sure that you’re okay with sharing whatever you feel like sharing, dont share stuff in order to please them in any way, it should totally be your call whether to talk about something or not ( same for the other person as well)
it takes a lot of time to establish trust and a sort of codependency and it happens pretty naturally, i also feel like its kind of easier to share that mutual trust in real life rather than while communicating online