Grief in its entirety is predefined as a state of coping with the absence or loss of something dear to us. People cry at major events such as death, divorce, and house loss. While everyone's mourning experience is unique, there are some common responses that you should be aware of if you've suffered a loss. Practice patience as you navigate through this tough period, whether you are grieving or assisting a loved one. Often one thinks that a period of grief strikes when a major downturn or loss occurs in the course of life, but its discourse can occur and surmount any individual at any point of time because of other factors too. Anything that discrepancies the normality of our daily lives and can make it hard for us to function can be out of a state of grieving about something or someone.

You might be devastated by the loss of:

● A companion, family member, partner, or pet.

● Marriage, friendship, or some other type of kinship.

● Your residence, living, or neighborhood.

● Your profession or job.

● Financial security.

● An aspiration or a goal to achieve.

● Excellent health.

● Your adolescence.

● Fertility.

As you prepare for death, you may also lament your own loss of life. People diagnosed with terminal illnesses, for example, frequently lament not having the time to experience or achieve what they would have desired to.

What are the types of grief that may affect a person?

Grief can be felt in a variety of ways. The various varieties of grieving illustrate how diverse and complex grief can be.

• Grief anticipation

Anticipatory grief is grief that happens before a loss occurs. For example, you may begin to grieve if you or a loved one is diagnosed with a terminal illness. Processing sorrow ahead of time might prepare you to confront loss when it occurs. Still, it's critical not to let your grief keep you from enjoying the valuable time you do have.

• Anguish that is shortened

Sometimes you can go through the grief process fast. This is true for shortened mourning. Anticipatory grieving may be followed by abbreviated grief. You can grieve a loss swiftly because you've already put in a lot of emotional work anticipating it. Grieving for a short period of time does not imply that you never genuinely cared about what you lost. When it comes to sorrow, we all have varied experiences.

• Anguish that is postponed

Instead of feeling the feelings that come with grieving right away, you may feel them days, weeks, or even months later. In certain cases, the shock of the loss halts your body's ability to process these feelings. Or you may be preoccupied with the practical aspects of loss (such as funerals and memorial services).

• Repressed grief

Repressing feelings is an example of inhibited mourning. Most of us haven't been trained how to process – or even recognize – the conflicting feelings that might develop during grief. As a result, many people who suppress their emotions are unaware that they are doing so. Unfortunately, when you don't allow yourself to pause and feel these emotions, sadness can manifest as physical symptoms such as nausea, insomnia, anxiety, or even panic attacks.

• The accumulation of grief

With cumulative sorrow, you are dealing with many losses at the same time. For example, you're not just mourning the death of a kid. You're mourning the end of a marriage that resulted from that loss. Grieving numerous losses at the same time complicates and complicates the process in unforeseen ways.

• Collective anguish

Most of us conceive of grieving as a personal experience, yet collectives (groups) also grieve. Major events such as wars, natural catastrophes, school shootings, and pandemics cause widespread devastation. They alter what constitutes "normal" existence. As a group, we mourn the shared experiences we've lost while struggling to conceive a different future.

How can we take care of ourselves while grieving?

1. Looking after oneself Self-care is essential. When you're mourning, it's critical to take care of your mind and body. Make sleeping seven to eight hours a night a priority, and take a nap if you need to refresh. Exercise regularly and eat healthy foods. Meditate or do some yoga. Bathe in bubbles. Make self-care a priority during grieving, and don't feel bad about it.

2. Maintain a routine. Grief disrupts your sense of normalcy while also disturbing your emotions. Maintaining a routine might help you regain control and regulate your emotions. Go to bed and wake up at regular intervals. Try to eat at the same time every day. Shower. Each assignment you accomplish counts as a win.

3. Pay attention to your emotions. Resist the impulse to become immersed in work or pastimes to distract oneself from painful feelings. Grieving necessitates the expression of painful emotions. Don't be embarrassed to cry. Allow yourself to relive memories with a loved one who is no longer in your life. Expel your pain by expressing your emotions in ways that make sense to you. Journaling, telling memories about a loved one, or singing a song that reminds you of them, for example, are all strategies to process painful feelings.

4. Make an effort to reach out to people. Reminding yourself of the relationships you still have is one of the finest strategies to cope with loss. When you're mourning, it's normal to require time alone, but don't isolate yourself. Remind yourself that not everything has changed, even if it appears to be the case. There are individuals in your life who care about you and want to help you.

5. Consult a therapist or a grief specialist Working through grief can sometimes necessitate the assistance of a professional. If your capacity to live your life is being hampered by grief, or if your symptoms haven't improved after six months, it's time to seek professional help. Accepting the idea that no matter how dark your existence is, the light will shine in its splendor with the passage of time will help you recall that you will not only survive, but thrive in your life once more. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but eventually you'll feel like yourself again.